Why can’t I find happiness in my relationships?

Posted by Karen Degen on 27th May 2013

Tags: love, relationship, relationships

You can’t attract a well-balanced, happy person if you are not that already.  No matter what you do or say, you will attract to you those who predominantly match the person who you predominantly are.  People often say they want a partner who will ‘complete them’ and believe they will feel better when they have that person.  According to the Law of Attraction however you must feel better before it can come to you.  If you are not happy with yourself, the attraction of a partner can only highlight those issues.  Have you noticed repeating patterns in your relationships?  These are usually red flags that something needs to change in you because no matter who you are with, the same situation will arise at some point.   It is not possible to attract someone who loves and accepts you completely if you don’t love and accept yourself.  How kind are you towards yourself with your thoughts?  Many of my clients are so critical of themselves that it is no surprise they have partners who are always finding fault in them.   Your outside world always reflects your inside world.

P.S. You may be interested in a related  blog about how your relationships at home affects your nutrition choices.  If so click here.  The blog is by Elly McGuinness who is an online fitness and wellbeing trainer who can help you lead a fitter, healthier life.